In our first call let’s say that we find out the problem is that you’re cheating on women that you want to be with and you can’t figure out why. You’re not a bad guy, you feel horrible for doing it and you want the pattern to stop.
This is the point of the journey where you believe your problem is “cheating on women”. (But as you’ll see, you’re completely wrong.)
In this phase - we might use talk therapy and breathwork to release emotions opening up the vagus nerve, getting you to feel those feelings. We figure out that by going into your feelings, the REAL problem is feelings of abandonment.
Then, we use EMDR and talk therapy to discover that due to your childhood, your “normal” is hanging around people you don’t trust. You have plenty of people around you but you won’t be able to trust any of these people. They would be the type that would stab you in the back.
This would also translate into your relationships with women. You attract women, and will naturally not trust these women. What’s worse, anytime they show they want to move on from you, you will detach and make it worse by cheating before you get abandoned.
You hate yourself for this sick pattern, and so you beat yourself up with negative self-talk.
So to combat this cycle of behavior we change your brain with Neural Behavior Conditioning.
(Stick with me here as this gets good)
We use meditation, visualization and NLP exercises to instill a pattern of discomfort for anyone who exhibits signs of poor values (AKA untrustworthy people). We make being around people with poor values uncomfortable for you.
We then use hypnosis to feel what it would be like to be around people you CAN trust. Future casting on what your life could be like around good, wholesome, trustworthy people.
With these changes made in your brain using the NBC program, your behavior changes too.
Your attractions have changed. You’re repelled by women who exhibit low value behavior. You associate pain with narcissists and bipolar women and then have a desire for healthier, caring women. You don’t get the feelings of abandonment anymore due to the NBC program.
You’re now happily dating, and the cheating never happens because the old triggers never pop up! You attract quality people in your life, and it’s effortless. Getting and keeping women is a joke now to the point you can’t even believe it was a problem in the first place.